Q: Is it a fault of the person who snores? Or is the person who snores does that intentionally?
A: I don't think it's a matter of hating the person who snores, rather it's hating the snoring itself. My wife loves me, but I suffer from insomnia (in other words, I have a great deal of difficulty sleeping). When I do manage to sleep I've been told I snore (quite loud). My wife absolutely HATES my tossing and turning due to my insomnia & when I do manage to sleep, she hates the snoring! LOL. But that doesn't mean she hates me or loves me any less. She's a human being and is entitled to her fair share of rest and relaxation. We actually sleep in two separate bedrooms. Most people will tell you that's a sure sign of marital problems. While sleeping in separate bedrooms may be one sign of marital problems, in my case it's a matter of two people respecting each other boundaries & having a little consideration for their partner. There are no faults when it comes to sleeping disorders, only misunderstandings which can be corrected by education & compassion. Cheers.