Q: are you 50 yet? Do you agree or not? Lady Lynn, I too dress caz and also get some grief about it (I'm in another country, not the usa) saying I dress "too young" when actually I argue, "i dress like all my age in the usa!" I get tired of it; one was actually critical to the point of "why does she do this, it isn't proper" oh give me a break..... I'm mainly talking health/attitudes but dress indicates a lot; we only dress casual (smart caz that is) when we feel good, right? btw, at 50 now I regularly get guessed, "in the 30s

A: I'm 54, and I do feel and look 30-ish. That's because we have good hair dye now, and we dress casually. Ellen Degenerous is a good example. 30 years ago, 50-year old women did not look or dress like Ellen. I DO agree! :)