Q: (You, as an individual. Not you, speaking for all people.) This is mainly directed toward guys, but what kind of girl do you like: One that acts like "one of the guys" or one who is very feminine and girly? Note: I am NOT looking to change my personality for anyone, I am just curious how many guys prefer what types of women. :) Please be considerate to others' answers too. A response I wanted to comment on: "It doesn't matter what you look or act like, it's the person you naturally are inside that counts." I realize this. I am NOT asking for PHYSICAL looks here. I am just curious. I know that my natural personality tends toward being "one of the guys" more, but I'm no butch. I'm NOT looking to change for anyone. I am merely curious, that's all! By "one of the guys" it can be sporty, but for me I intend it to mean: Rational, not fussy, whiny, laid back and willing to talk things out. Those are the wonderful traits of men that I love that I happen to embody in my natural personality as well.
A: Soft spoken, intelligent, understated sense of humor, modest, confident, honest. Turn offs are flash. loud, catty, demanding, manipulative, self-centered. As for looks, the 'classic beauty' types like Jennifer Connelly or Catherine Zeta-Jones, but looks are not nearly as important as the character traits.